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The Joys of Vacation Sex!
Most couples have more and better sex on vacation—even if they are way for a lusty weekend. They can turn off their cell phones and their laptops, and focus on pleasuring each other. Getting away often...
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There is always a need for more definitive research on pheromones, but it is fairly clear to most people that when you are drawn to someone’s natural smells (not perfumes and colognes), it is because...
View ArticleWhy More Counselors Should Refer to a Sex Therapist
Every therapist or counselor should be licensed, and should have a scope of practice that is made clear in any advertising, websites and listings. If the scope of practice is marriage and the family,...
View ArticleIs a New Sexual Revolution Coming?
It is common to refer to the sexual revolution of the sixties, but that revolution actually peaked from 1973 to 1975, and many of the changes in our culture have been integrated in our lives up to the...
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In Defense of Playful, Undulating Lust
When I coined the now-popular concept “Sex-Positive” in 1976, sex-negative social and political forces escalated their misguided attack on lust in the name of being “responsible,” or to avoid being a...
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Sleepless, but not Sexless, in Seattle: Your Most Thrilling Erotic Flashbacks
What’s the hottest sex you ever had? Meeting up with a high school girlfriend or boyfriend and (finally) getting it on—all the way? Letting the woman down the street seduce you? Being tied up,...
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Fifty Shades of Grey — Using Your Gray Matter!
Should sex be viewed strictly in terms of black and white, right and wrong, romantic love vs. pure, pulse-racing lust? Or is sex more prismatic, open to wider interpretation and exploration? That ought...
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Where do we usually make love? In bed!? We can be a lot more adventurous! I think we need to go somewhere near water — particularly running, streaming, undulating water like the ocean or a river in...
View ArticleTechnology can Distract from Sex…or Enhance it. Set Tech on Vibrate!
In Seattle, we are a land of technology. But technology can interfere with intimacy if we’re always on the cell phone or at the computer, or watching television. Or, it can sometimes enhance sex in...
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What’s Funny About Sex Education? A Lot!
I have always appreciated the healing power of humor in my practice, not just for things that ail us, but for relationships. We have to be able to see the humor and laugh at...
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In Defense of Playful, Undulating Lust
When I coined the now-popular concept “Sex-Positive” in 1976, sex-negative social and political forces escalated their misguided attack on lust in the name of being “responsible,” or to avoid being a...
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Sleepless, but not Sexless, in Seattle: Your Most Thrilling Erotic Flashbacks
What’s the hottest sex you ever had? Meeting up with a high school girlfriend or boyfriend and (finally) getting it on—all the way? Letting the woman down the street seduce you? Being tied up,...
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Fifty Shades of Grey — Using Your Gray Matter!
Should sex be viewed strictly in terms of black and white, right and wrong, romantic love vs. pure, pulse-racing lust? Or is sex more prismatic, open to wider interpretation and exploration? That ought...
View ArticleGo With the Flow for Better Sex & Marriage: Can you say “H2-Ohhhh?”
Where do we usually make love? In bed!? We can be a lot more adventurous! I think we need to go somewhere near water — particularly running, streaming, undulating water like the ocean or a river in...
View ArticleTechnology can Distract from Sex…or Enhance it. Set Tech on Vibrate!
In Seattle, we are a land of technology. But technology can interfere with intimacy if we’re always on the cell phone or at the computer, or watching television. Or, it can sometimes enhance sex in...
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What’s Funny About Sex Education? A Lot!
I have always appreciated the healing power of humor in my practice, not just for things that ail us, but for relationships. We have to be able to see the humor and laugh at ourselves,...
View ArticleClik here to view.
In Defense of Playful, Undulating Lust
When I coined the now-popular concept “Sex-Positive” in 1976, sex-negative social and political forces escalated their misguided attack on lust in the name of being “responsible,” or to avoid being a...
View ArticleClik here to view.
Sleepless, but not Sexless, in Seattle: Your Most Thrilling Erotic Flashbacks
What’s the hottest sex you ever had? Meeting up with a high school girlfriend or boyfriend and (finally) getting it on—all the way? Letting the woman down the street seduce you? Being tied up,...
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Fifty Shades of Grey — Using Your Gray Matter!
Should sex be viewed strictly in terms of black and white, right and wrong, romantic love vs. pure, pulse-racing lust? Or is sex more prismatic, open to wider interpretation and exploration? That ought...
View ArticleGo With the Flow for Better Sex & Marriage: Can you say “H2-Ohhhh?”
Where do we usually make love? In bed!? We can be a lot more adventurous! I think we need to go somewhere near water — particularly running, streaming, undulating water like the ocean or a river in...
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